Aging can be hard on a family. The past decade has seen a steady increase in the growth of the aging population. According to WHO, the senior population will outnumber the younger population. And will reach nearly 1.5 billion by the year 2050. This is quite a considerable number for keeping our loved ones in good health and spirit. Yet, with a steady rise in the elderly population, sometimes we are not ready to take good care of them. This is primarily because we fail to see the increasing demands of the aging body. And also the many challenges that come with it.
Furthermore, there has also been a drastic change in the cause of death, which has led to an increase in the longevity of the human population. This is a critical issue, and as a result, we are discussing this in detail. It strongly relates to the mental and physical preparations needed to care for our aging parents and relatives. For example, now there are fewer deaths due to infectious diseases. But, on the other hand, chronic diseases are now more rampant due to, imp, roper lifestyle or other issues.
Aging is an inevitable part of life, and all of us will age. There would be many challenges that your parents might have to face, owing to their advancing age. Unfortunately, our loved ones may not always be ready to face this. And would have to face the agony of growing frail and gradual loss of ability to function independently. Parents are often left to fend for themselves once the children go to them for better education or job opportunities. Initially, the visits may be quite often, but the holidays may become less frequent as time progresses. Dealing with an aging loved one day out and being careful not to stop their independence any further can cause strain on you as the family caregiver.
Signs that your aging parents need help
Aging health issues may often catch your loved ones off guard. It gives you very little time to comprehend and take action. Therefore, it is always better to be careful about the various signs and take action sooner rather than later. Some symptoms tell you something is amiss with your parent’s health.
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You would find the house is not as clean as it was when you had last visited them.
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Newspapers remain unread and unopened for days together.
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The house has an unpleasant odor
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The hallway needs maintenance.
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Expired groceries that are not thrown.
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Unused medications – implying that your parents forget to take them regularly.
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Poor dietary habits, untimely meals.
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Weight loss or weight gain.
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Unexplained bruising or injuries.
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Tousled clothing, poor personal hygiene.
Suppose you notice any of the above signs or symptoms. Then it indicates that your loved one now needs 24×7 care and support. Let us face the fact that it may not always be possible for you to be with them around the clock. You need to consider hiring help who would be there with your parents or help you if you are looking for some reliable sources for hiring a caregiver. Where you can be stress-free and confident considering my caregiving resources. Please check out my resource page or schedule a call to learn more about me and my services.
Why do I need to hire help for my aging loved ones?
A caregiver provides care to people who are either ill or incapable of caring for themselves. Furthermore, most of you are busy entrepreneurs, executives, students, or have a family, which may make it difficult for you to take care of your loved ones 24×7. In addition, advancing age shows a marked change in the individual’s physical and mental health. Also, many of you may not live close to your loved ones’ homes, making it difficult to care for them. In such cases, hiring a caregiver is always the best idea. However, suppose these reasons are insufficient for hiring a caregiver. If you want to know what more a caregiver can provide, the following pointers can help you.
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A caregiver would not only help your elderly parents carry out their daily activities. But would also support them and take care of them in emergencies. And bring them to their regular appointments.
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A trained caregiver would also help your elderly with their daily exercises. And would motivate them as well as help them to stay physically active.
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They would take them out in the park, spend time with them, and keep them engaged in other activities.
Overseeing this can cause you to worry because you can’t be in 2 places simultaneously: taking care of your business and your loved one. Look into hiring some help. This will allow you to get some rest and ensure your loved one is properly cared for. Or maybe you want to spend more time with your loved one while taking a break from extra business tasks like sending emails, returning calls, or organizing files. Let’s chat about how I can serve you so you can take care of your business and your loved ones.
Can I become the caregiver for my aging loved ones?
Yes, you certainly can, provided you are not preoccupied with endless tasks. But, before you choose to care for your parents, first, you need to stop and ask yourself a few questions:
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Will you be available 24×7 for your parents?
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Do you have a family of your own, and in that case, would it be ok with your partner and children if you give the maximum time to your aging parents?
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Do you know or are willing to learn the primary ways to care for older people?
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Are you physically fit, and can you perform all the tasks required to care for an elderly one?
Please remember we all want the best for our loved ones and always want them to be safe and healthy. And, if you are not in a position to provide the best of care, then you are not being selfish or heartless. It is ok if you cannot provide care to your aging loved ones. It is ok if you want to outsource the task of caregiving to someone else. But, do remember, if you wish to provide the best care for your parents, you first need to be physically and mentally fit if you are there for your parents but are constantly thinking about work or family. I have written several ebooks to help you learn how to care for your loved ones.
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Conclusion
Therefore, to safeguard the interests of aging parents and children, it is always best to consider hiring help. Attending to your loved one with a stroke can be challenging, but it’s not impossible. With the proper knowledge, you can do this. Remember to care for yourself and keep your business going while caregiving. I’m here to assist you on this journey. Schedule your planning session with me to see how to keep your life and business running smoothly.
